Too many first dates, not enough second ones...

You're ready to find "the One".

Through friends, family, work and philanthropy you're meeting new people and setting first dates.  But for some reason, you're not getting any second dates.  It feels like the evenings are going great, that you're connecting, but when you follow up, you just can't seem to make the transition to the second date.

First date failures tend to fall into two categories: SELECTION and PERFORMANCE.

SELECTION: are you picking the right women?  Is the image you are projecting to make your date the personality you show on your date.

PERFORMANCE: do you dominate conversation, into your blackberry, still doing the stuff hat got you the date

What do you do: act like you're trying for the 2nd date, get some advice, get a coach