The date is going well. She is sending you the signal that tonight is the night. You've planned out the evening so far and now you've got to make the call: Do you head back to her place, or to yours?
The answer is simple: GO TO HER PLACE
Here are the three reasons why her place is the right place.
HER PLACE IS HOW SHE IMAGINES IT: if it takes candles to get her in the mood, she'll light them. If music sets the right tone, she'll put on her favorite album. If she only rolls dirty on 400 count Egyptian, they will be ready to go. All of the things that she wants/needs/imagines as part of your first night together are already in place -- she's done the work, don't let it go to waste.
YOUR PLACE WILL QUICKLY BECOME ABOUT THE FUTURE, NOT ABOUT TONIGHT: as soon as she walks into your place, she will be translating everything she sees into an assessment of you as a man. Too many mirrors - are you narcissistic? Too well decorated - did some other woman help you put this room together? Well stocked liquor cabinet - do you drink too much? When a woman is presented with this information-rich opportunity to learn more about you, she is going to be sidetracked from the "priority of the evening".
OWN THE EXIT: the next morning, there is a very different dynamic between wondering when she is going to go, and you dropping an "I've got to be somewhere" and bringing the evening to a close. Better that she is a little disappointed that the evening goes a little shorter than she had hoped than you begin to become annoyed with her overstaying a welcome.
Lastly, just because she invites "you in", doesn't mean she is necessarily inviting you "in" -- continue to read the signals as the evening progresses at her place.
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